{"id":4687,"date":"2020-01-21T04:46:25","date_gmt":"2020-01-20T15:46:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/valuecremations.weavestaging.xyz\/?p=4687"},"modified":"2022-09-11T02:15:47","modified_gmt":"2022-09-10T14:15:47","slug":"mate-pouri-covid-19","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/mi\/loss-grief-covid-19\/","title":{"rendered":"Te mate, te pouri &amp;<br>COVID-19"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ko te noho i roto i nga mate o naianei he maha nga akoranga e pa ana ki nga mea e mohio ana tatou mo te mate me te pouri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ko te mea tuatahi, kei te mohio tatou kei te huri noa te mate i a tatou e kaha ana ki te urutau ki nga huringa o o tatou oranga o ia ra. Tata rawa nga mea mo o tatou oranga o ia ra kaore i pa ki nga huringa - te mahi, te hokohoko, te hararei, te kura, te whakahoahoa, te korikori tinana, te toro, te whakawhitiwhiti korero, te wiri ringa ... he mutunga kore te rarangi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ki te ngaro, ka pouri ano. Ko te pouri, he korero ngawari, e pa ana ki te ahua o to tatou ahua ki te ngaro me te whakarereke - me pehea o tatou whakaaro mo taua mea, me pehea o tatou whakaaro mo taua mea, me pehea ta tatou mahi hei whakautu ki o tatou whakaaro me o tatou kare-a-roto me te paanga o to tatou pouri ki to tatou oranga tinana me te oranga.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E pa ana ki te ahua hou o te oranga e pa ana ki a tatou, kei te whakaahua nga tangata i o raatau tauhohenga ma te whakamahi kupu penei:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1174\" height=\"952\" src=\"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Screen-Shot-2021-01-21-at-8.44.06-am.png\" alt=\"Whakaahua Mata 2021 01 21 I 8.44.06 Am\" class=\"wp-image-4691\" srcset=\"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Screen-Shot-2021-01-21-at-8.44.06-am.png 1174w, https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Screen-Shot-2021-01-21-at-8.44.06-am-600x487.png 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1174px) 100vw, 1174px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1040\" height=\"1010\" src=\"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Screen-Shot-2021-01-21-at-8.44.13-am.png\" alt=\"Whakaahua Mata 2021 01 21 I te 8.44.13 Am\" class=\"wp-image-4692\" srcset=\"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Screen-Shot-2021-01-21-at-8.44.13-am.png 1040w, https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Screen-Shot-2021-01-21-at-8.44.13-am-600x583.png 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1040px) 100vw, 1040px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Me pehea koe e awhina ai i a koe ano?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ko te huarahi ngawari ki te tango i to pouri i roto i to uma ko te korero ki tetahi mo taua mea - tera pea ka kitea e koe he maha nga tangata ka rite nga whakautu ki a koe ake, kaore koe i te mea ko koe anake i roto i to ahua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ma te tuhi mo o whakaaro me to ahuatanga ka awhina - ko te pupuri i te rataka ka rite ki te tuku korero ki tetahi hoa, ka taea e koe te pono me te korero i nga mea katoa kei roto i to hinengaro, kaore he whakatau, he whakahee.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whakaarohia te whakawh\u00e4iti i to rongo ki nga purongo i runga i te hunga panui - ka nui ake te raru me te whakakii i to hinengaro ki nga korero mo te mate, te mataku me te raru. Engari, ia ra, ka taea e koe te whakaaro, me te tuhi, e toru nga mea e mihi ana koe, ahakoa te iti. He tikanga mahi noa tenei hei whakatairanga i te pai me te hinengaro hauora.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He maha nga rauemi a-ipurangi, ina koa ko nga mea e awhina ana i a koe ki te ako whakaaro me te whakaaroaro kia ata noho to hinengaro me te aro ki te awhina whaiaro. Ko etahi ko:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><a href=\"https:\/\/coronavirus.beyondblue.org.au\/\">coronavirus.beyondblue.org.au<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"http:\/\/mindspot.org.au\/\">mindspot.org.au<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"http:\/\/smilingmind.com.au\/\">smilemind.com.au<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Kia mahara ki te korero rongonui, &#039;ka pahemo hoki tenei&#039;. Kaore pea i te ahua, engari ka hoki ano nga mea. I tenei wa, he mea nui kia maia ka pai ake nga mea, ka ora te tangata, ka hoki ano nga mea. I tua atu i te pupuri i o whainga mo te wa roa, whakaarohia nga mea ka mahia e koe i ia ra me ia wiki, ka taea e koe, ka koa. Ano, ngana ki te kawe mai i etahi atu ki o mahere; ka whai hua pea ma te whakaaro mo nga ra kei mua.&nbsp;<br>(P\u016btake:&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/mindspot.org.au\/\">mindspot.org.au)<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link\" href=\"\/mi\/rauemi\/\">Hoki ki blogs<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Living through the current pandemic is bringing many lessons to the surface related to what we know about loss and grief. First of all, we\u2019re&nbsp;realising&nbsp;that loss is all around us as we are forced to adapt to changes in our daily lives.&nbsp;Almost nothing about our daily lives has been untouched by change \u2013 working, shopping, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4690,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-4687","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-uncategorised","8":"wpbf-post"},"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/mi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4687","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/mi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/mi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/mi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/mi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4687"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/mi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4687\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4803,"href":"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/mi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4687\/revisions\/4803"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/mi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4690"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/mi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4687"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/mi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4687"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/valuecremations.co.nz\/mi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4687"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}